Another possibility occurred to me that may explain this study’s unintuitive (and stand-alone) finding that women who have more short-term sexual partners prior to marriage were less likely to have a marital affair.
It could be simply that these are the lower value women who got pumped and dumped a lot by men, and when they finally found a doting beta to wife them up they were overjoyed at their good fortune and, like the men in LTRs with hot babes, wouldn’t dare risk it all on a momentary illicit fling.
Men who choose the former are more apt to cheat to fulfill their desire for the latter.
The researchers found that men who had a higher number of short-term sexual relationships prior to marriage were less likely to stay faithful whereas women in this same category were less likely to cheat. If you like to fuck around, marriage ain’t gonna stop ya. As for the second part of that finding, I call bullshit.
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A person’s history of sex was a predictor of infidelity, too.
This is why, btw, sluts are more often than not less attractive than their peers.What this means in practice is that less attractive men are more *grateful* for their main squeezes, and thus less inclined to risk losing it all on an infidelity.Ok, this is cheating risk assessment based on partner looks rather than one’s own looks.The research did, however, find two techniques which could minimise the chances of infidelity occurring; ‘attentional disengagement’, and ‘evaluative devaluation’ of potential romantic partners.Those with higher levels of attentional disengagement (avoiding thinking about a potential romantic partner’s attractiveness) and evaluative devaluation (downplaying the potential partner’s attractiveness in their mind) were less likely to cheat. Ironically, ‘evaluative devaluation’ is a fancy term for an Inner Game technique to help men approach hot babes.And it comports with CH wisdom: men hitched to hot babes won’t risk losing them to a dalliance (and those men are already getting great sex since male sexual fulfillment is directly proportional to female lover beauty).But men hitched to unattractive women (or to women those men perceive being below the best they can get) will think a lot about cheating with more attractive women.Click below to let us know you read this article, and wiki How will donate to Trek to Teach on your behalf.Thanks for helping us achieve our mission of helping people learn how to do anything.Setting Things Up Creating Atmosphere Getting Physical Community Q&A Seduction is all about paying attention to someone's else's needs and moving forward accordingly.If you want to seduce a woman, spend time getting to know her, set an appropriate atmosphere, and move slowly while getting physical.